Many of us have messed up great relationships because of the illusion of freedom.
We had great woman and had a great family environment that needed us to be there to grow with it and in it. Instead of giving ourselves to this set up we felt the need to hold on to the illusion of freedom.
We wanted to be in a committed relationships and still have the privileges of being single.
We allowed our single friends to fool us into thinking we have changed and that we are being controlled.
We lost out on a great chance of building something of great all in the name of chasing the next beautiful thing with was and curves.
We lost out in witnessing critical development stages in our kids lives because we decided to make the mother evil. We moved out all in the name of wanting freedom and running away from the fear of being controlled we found ourselves lost and lonely in our freedom.
The illusion of freedom has sent a lot of men to a lonely and regret state of mind.
Sometimes all you need to do is give yourself to that which you are blessed with stick it out and learn to grow in the relationship you are in.
It took messing up to learn that what I had was it.
The night outs won’t satisfy
The random sex won’t satisfy
The weekend away with the boys who are using getting away as an escape from how they feel won’t help.
It one point we have to admit that the baby mama was not crazy all she wanted was a man who will be man enough to build and grow with her.
If you have an opportunity to build with someone that wants to build with you please don’t screw it up.
