When couples fight to a point of being totally hurtful with words it leaves the relationship bleeding in critical places.
Not only does this allow disrespect to be at the centre of the relationship but it allows both parties to totally hurt one another in ways words can’t explain.
The need to want to be more hurtful in your response pushes both of you away from one another emotionally which makes it impossible to go back to the place of normality after the insults have been made.
Your selfesstem and ego is bruised beyond measure.
Words have the capacity to cripple you and damage you. How you view your partner and the relationship changes significantly when hurtful words that carry insults are said.
Relationships are killed by things that are said in a moment of anger.
There might be no coming back to the place of love once certain things are said. Before you feel the need to express anger think of the damage your words carry.
Before you feel compiled to exercise your right to be right think of the ways to execute your rightness.
So it means so words are better not spoken